The drive for autonomy, when the brain says NO! A Gentle Look at Your Demand Avoidance - The Pursuit of Autonomy as the Underlying Truth I want to talk with you about something that can feel really confusing and sometimes heavy. It’s those moments when you find yourself pulling away from a request or struggling to do something, even when you genuinely want to. People often label this as “demand avoidance,” but I don’t see it as a flaw in you. What I see is a very human need f